Tips to get over a the pain of being in a relationship with a Narcissist

     Relationships require work as we all know, but being in a relationship with a Narcissist whether it is romantic, work related, parental, or other facets of life.  There is really not much hope or positive results from narcissists that enter therapy because they will learn tactics from therapy to further manipulate.  Many times the issues are deep rooted from childhood.  They are experts at lying, gaslighting, devaluing, and have no sense of empathy.  With this in mind, know that these people have a mental illness and in my opinion.... are simply demonic accompanied by 7 other evil spirits you are fighting.  So please fill you your spirit daily with positivity and spirituality,  and do not be naïve to the fact that these different personalities and spirits are around you in your healthy space.  They will sneak up on you, and because you cannot imagine a person being so mean and vindictive you can be a victim of their abuse. 

TIPS TO OVERCOMING NARCISSISTIC ABUSE

1. Do not look to a narcissist for validation.
2. Make and keep boundaries.
3. Do not make empty promises or threats to them because they do not respond to verbal requests.
4. Create boundaries.
5. Consequences are to be issued with action.
6. Do not expect them to think or react as "normal" people.
7. KNOW that narcissist are ABUSERS and they thrive off of being in Control.
8. When you leave a relationship with a narcissist,  know that they are losing control and will act erratically.
9. DO NOT BELIEVE WHAT COMES OUT OF THEIR MOUTHS, because it is all a LIE.  Focus on what they do not say!
10. Surround yourself with people that KNOW, LOVE, SUPPORT, and can validate you.

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