Is there a correlation between Narcissism and Domestic Violence?

  

In today's society there appears to be a high degree of narcissistic people on the loose.  Narcissism is extreme self-involvement to the degree that it makes a person ignore the needs of those around them. While everyone may show occasional narcissistic behavior, true narcissists frequently disregard others or their feelings. They also do not understand the effect that their behavior has on other people.Dec 2, 2020

Narcissism: Symptoms and Signs - WebMD

    In many relationships where domestic violence is present so are many of the traits of narcissism .  The abuser can be very cunning and appear to be so kind in front of others, but behind closed doors it can be like setting up camp next to an active volcano.  Some romantic relationships can start off with a high level of love-bombing and intense affection and attention.  However, most instincts will kick in and tell the victim that something isn't right.  Many times the abuser doesn't allow the victim to breathe or think clearly due to the manipulation tactics already premeditated.  Similar tactics are used in non romantic relationships such as work, or parent-child relationships, etcetera.

I will leave the diagnosing to the professionals, but this is what the disorder can look like:

Narcissistic personality disorder

Also called: NPD

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A disorder in which a person has an inflated sense of self-importance.

Narcissistic personality disorder is found more commonly in men. The cause is unknown but likely involves a combination of genetic and environmental factors.

Symptoms include an excessive need for admiration, disregard for others' feelings, an inability to handle any criticism, and a sense of entitlement.

The disorder needs to be diagnosed by a professional. Treatment involves talk therapy.

We all show traits of narcissism from time to time.  So it's important that we don't label others as you don't want to mislabeled.  Narcissist show consistent behavior.

Signs that you may be dealing with a narcissist :

1. Everything is ALWAYS ALL ABOUT THEM!
2. They don't show empathy for others.
3. They think they are always owed something.
4. Try and control everything through manipulation.
5. Say very mean and hurtful things, but have no clue of how it hurts others
6. When you don't say or do what they want, THEY WILL PUNISH YOU.
7. They are constantly having altercations with others, and behave irrationally.
8. When it is brought to their attention about wrong doing, they will never take responsibility.  It is always because of something or someone that MADE THEM REACT. 
9. They frequently demean, intimidate, bully, or belittle others.
10. They have a need for constant praise and admiration.

The best way to deal with a narcissist is TO NOT DEAL WITH A NARCISSIST.  There are situations where you may have to interact with them, and it may be best to limit conversation and not respond to their attempts to get you off your focus.

Do you want to  Schedule a time to chat or meet with me about your plan to heal from interactions with a narcissist?  Please email any questions you may have to LifeCoach702@live.com .

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