Ten signs of Trauma from a Narcissist

In more recent years we have really begun to hear about Narcissists, but really they have been around since biblical times. Narcissists can be summarized as people that only care about themselves, and they are quick to discard others when they choose another supply,

or you have figured them out. In general, they get a kick out of playing mental head games, and making your life a living hell. 

The Trauma Trail aftermath of having a narcissist in your life:

 1.  You are left feeling wiped out and in disbelief of how a person could treat and talk to you so poorly while making it to be your fault or that you deserve it.

2.  They will speak of you to others as if they are the victim and all the while they have been victimizing you, your family, loved ones, and friends.

3.  You look back and question yourself about how this happened to you because you are wise, but they are manipulating.  

4.  They execute the manipulating tactics by love-bombing.  Always showering you with gifts or not allowing time to think theses through before you are bombarded with other manipulation.

5.  When you look back in a romantic relationship, you had more time off on breaks than time working towards a healthy relationship.

6.  They will do things like cheat, and again will justify it by creating a fantastic story that ends with it being your fault.

7.  They put a show of being so kind and loving to others such as co-workers, etcetera, but you are scratching your head wondering why you get the Tasmanian Devil when they are in your presence.

8.  You wonder how they can mistreat their own children in the forms of verbal, physical, sexual, and mental abuse and say you are the reason for it all.

9.  They tend to have trouble keeping jobs and friends due to anger management issues when all focus and praise is not centered towards them.

10.  They seem to think they are smarter than everyone else, but are often outsmarted by their mental health neglect.

Narcissistic abuse is real.  It can be very debilitating mentally and physically.  If you find yourself in one of these situation-ships whether it's parental, romantic, work related, or friendships, it may time to revalue your self care and worth.  Be okay with going against what others may think or say.  Get alone and meditate on what God's path looks like for you.  Most importantly, do not let worldly ways influence your decisions and choices.  The world will tell you that you should be married by a certain age or being friends with certain people will bring you clout, but the reality is what ever path the Most High has for you may look different than the path you fantasized about.  Be sure to align your heart and mind when encountering people without practicing denial towards your instincts.  Most importantly, take your time to get to know people and their village before inviting them into your inner circle.