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Narcissism- what it looks likes and feels like

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You may encountered narcissistic abuse as a child, on a job, in a friendship, or in a relationship.  No matter where you have been exposed to it, IT HURTS!   There is help, hope, and healing ahead of you if you are willing to do the work.  The work starts from within by identifying your boundaries, and knowing when to take action if they are crossed.   Order Now Signs that YOU are dealing with a NARCISSIST  Anger spells- tend to have a hard time keeping relationships and jobs Self centered- everything is focused on the narcissist’s agenda Will tell you everything they think you want to hear, but will discard you when they have what they want from you . Boredom and a new supply are common reasons for  discard  Quick to criticize with no sense of empathy Will try and make you look 👀 unstable to others If you listen carefully to your instincts, and watch their actions you will notice hard to believe behaviors. Many times you will doubt your intuitions because the behaviors are so cruel a

It is true, Hurt People, Hurt People!

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     October is a month of a few worthy awareness causes, Domestic Violence and Breast Cancer.  In my opinion it is a time to remember and work towards stopping both  issues as they both primarily hurt women and their families.  Unfortunately,  domestic violence usually starts early on in life, and continues for generations unless the cycles are broken.     Many women find themselves in situations where gaslighting is apart of their daily lives.  Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse where a person can be made to feel "crazy" or out of touch.  For example, a woman sees her husband openly flirting with a woman in her face.  She confronts her husband , and his reply is "You're imagining things, and you know I would never do that."  Another example is, a child reveals his sexual preference, and it is not heterosexual.  A parent may gaslight by saying to the child, "It's just a phase, and you will grow out of it."  The bottom line is gaslighting is