When we discuss societal issues like juvenile detention, substance abuse, domestic violence, and incarceration, we often focus on the symptoms rather than the root causes. What if the origins of these crises are deeply woven? The path from childhood abuse to systemic entrapment in institutions like the California Youth Authority, jails, and prisons showcases the urgent need for preventative care and trauma-informed systems. The Scars of Childhood Abuse   Childhood abuse creates invisible wounds that manifest in behaviors society often deems “problematic.” Neglect, physical abuse, sexual abuse, and emotional torment leave children grappling with unresolved trauma, often without the resources or support to heal. Instead of receiving compassion, many of these children are funneled into punitive systems that compound their struggles.   For example, in California , statistics reveal a stark reality: a significant portion of individuals in juvenile detention report experiencing...

​ 10 tips to overcome trauma imposed by narcissistic abuse: 1  Take time and listen to your inner thoughts that create doubt about behaviors and words presented by those that continue to cause hurt and pain. 2  If they cause you trauma and hurt, it is time to set boundaries.  What does that look like for you? It may be as simple as going no-contact or reducing contact. 3  Journal. Start writing down your thoughts and feelings frequently.  If you notice a negative pattern, then it may be time to draft a solution. 4 Listen to those around you that have your best interest at heart.  If different people are commenting on the same things, it’s time to take positive actions. 5 Once you notice a pattern of misbehaving, please call the person out on their actions .  Please note - narcissists are very crafty and are not approachable when it comes to taking accountability. 6  Set your boundaries. You may remind the abuser a couple of times of boundaries the...

STARTING FROM ZERO! After leaving or going through a few toxic relationships it can leave you feeling depleted.  You may have lost a few things financially, time, courage, and sense of worth.  You still have a purpose and much to give to this world starting with your circle moving outward.  Sometimes starting from zero is what you need to rebuild your healthy balanced life. Here are few tips to get started with putting your life on track  1.  Start with formulating your daily self care routine : doing things that bring you joy and peace.  (Long baths, walks, arts/crafts, gardening or planning a vacation).  Creating a daily schedule as a guid to keep you on track with your time, sleep, and eating habits is a great place to start. Need some items in the area of   Self Care Products  ? 2.  Surround yourself with people that uplift and encourage you.  Step out on a limb and try something different.  Create an online group, an...